Are you experiencing emotional trauma from a misattributed parentage event?
Thousands of people have discovered that a parent on their birth certificate is not their biological parent.
This jarring discovery can happen to adoptees, people conceived using sperm or egg donation, or simply people whose family chose to hide the circumstances of their birth.
This is commonly known as a “Misattributed Parentage Event” (MPE) or can be referred to as “Not Parent Expected” (NPE).
Whether misattributed parentage comes to light through genetic testing, a family member, or your own intuition, the emotional consequences can be devastating.
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COACHING SERVICES
Move through your discovery process with the tools you need to reclaim your life and rebuild your relationships.
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Discovery Call
Schedule a complimentary 30-minute discovery call with me to test the waters. This allows both of us to get a feel for whether or not we would work well together. A coaching relationship, like any relationship, requires a foundation of trust and resonance. The discovery call offers both of us the opportunity to get to assess the potential for those qualities.
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Virtual Session
Face-to-face Zoom Sessions from the comfort of your home.
Individual Sessions: $95 / hour billed at time of booking
Package of 12 weekly sessions: $1,100 total billed at time of booking
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In-Person Session
Traditional face-to-face sessions in a nurturing office setting, in Ashland, Oregon. This is a great option for those in Southern Oregon or far Northern California
Individual sessions: $120 / hour billed at time of booking
Package of 12 weekly sessions: $1,350 total billed at time of booking
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Multi-Person Workshop
Schedule a multi-person workshop for a family or affinity group. Gain shared language, tools, and concepts that will help your group support each other through collective or individual MPE discovery.
Contact me for dates and pricing.

Let me help you navigate the MPE / NPE experience.
I am an MPE/NPE with 27 years of post-discovery life experience. In 1995, at the age of 37, I made the discovery that my biological father was not the man on my birth certificate. That discovery precipitated two decades of processing, discovery, and recovery.
My journey has included connecting with biological family, navigating the complexities of a new family system in my birth certificate family, the uncovering and resolution of childhood trauma, recovery from addiction, and the processing and healing of the midlife / identity crises that are fundamental to the MPE/NPE experience.
I am an MPE / NPE Trauma Recovery Coach, a non-traditional university student working on a Counseling Psychology degree, the father of three adult sons, co-founder of an authentic relating men’s group, a Breathwork Facilitator, and a river guide.
I use my training and experience to help you navigate the complicated process of MPE trauma recovery. My goal is to give you tools to manage some of the most common traumas of a MPE and to help you find a new relationship with your life, family, and self, post-discovery.